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D Hunter's avatar

One of the biggest lessons I think you'll learn on the boat will be humility. I'm not implying you're not humble, but there is a difference in your life now; you are very much at the mercy of nature on a sailboat. You are learning first hand how little you control you have, how flexible you must be. It is teaching you a different kind of resilience.

I take from reading about you that you're the type to grind it out - you're made of tough mettle. You put your head down and just get at it once you decide that's what you want. I'm very much the same. I married a sailor (ships, not boats though) and from him I've learned you can't always just power through, sometimes you just have to wait, to watch, to BE- very zen like. It's humbling to realize one is at the mercy of forces larger than one's self (I'm not religious; I mean nature), and there is a beauty in acknowledging that. There is an awe-some ness to it.

Fair winds, my substack friend!

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Darren Weir's avatar

"The project of finding fulfillment never ends, but it’s also part of the adventure."

Love this line.

Another immersive, entertaining post following your adventures. But it's not just the sailing adventure it's also the self-discovery you share along the way. Don't be too hard on yourself. Sic Sursum - Sail On!

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